Showing posts with label expectations. Show all posts
Showing posts with label expectations. Show all posts

Thursday, January 29, 2009

High Expectations

"Man wants to live, but it is useless to hope that this desire will dictate all his actions." - Albert Camus


At times I feel my expectations of people are indeed high. My love and respect comes at this price. However, sometimes, people feel as if my expectations from them are too high. I might even agree with them at times because I am a hard ass when it comes to people willingly falling short to what I expect from them. It's not something I take lightly because I am so used to being disappointed in the past. But here is where I run into a problem. A major one at that! I don't want to feel disappointed, but I put up these expectations which are unattainable for some. So is it not that I am setting myself up for failure? Setting myself up to just be disappointed? And if I back down and lower these standards, won't I be taking a loss from my own character? I cannot comprise; If I did, I would be actively seeking to live a life in which I sought to get rid of. It's all so difficult! I am in a fix.


Warmest Regards,
Stephen